Wednesday, January 12, 2011

The water to help you through the grief

 A few days ago, I reckon the time difference, giving away a large secondary school in the United States, the son of Xu Chao called phone call.
While very convenient to make international long distance calls are cheap, but I do not know why I and my son are not always call. also once or twice a month. So connected, I excitedly say hello to his son, looking forward to his side came Contrary to my surprise, his voice filled with sadness, tears in my eyes it seems, very depressed mood. do not know what do, I suddenly feel very worried.
I asked with concern: s the matter? good feeling, and experiencing all the trouble, is part of growing up. year-old high school senior boy if crying is simply suffered setbacks examination, the game fiasco, man enemies, abandoned girls and those with hh, like air and water present in our lives jealousy, frustration, depression, frustration, and so emotional it. I do not particularly worried.
Although not worried, but hung up the phone, thought of his son may still be immersed in pain, am worried again. like the phone call in the past to comfort him, but a bite, think: the things in life, bad and the good , had to let the children face. Parents can give children the best wealth, is to let them deal with life, independent of the will and skills. If parents want to make him a child failing to resolve, forced the children to grow up, long big is not happy.
Xu Chao's personality, and his brother and his father Xu catch my old little different, more introverted. to help him open the windows of the soul, let him become a lively and bright boy, a few years I have been deliberately and carefully taught. But as a child to form the character, not the short-lived fad can change.
introverted and extroverted, I would prefer outgoing personality. because in my opinion, introverted person, face full share of poor and good friends, it encountered a bad thing, than allow him to share their loved ones, not like me who Da Lielie silly mood, emotions and loneliness, the ups and downs likely to be volatile.
thought of his son One dorm is a distant youth, swallowing the bitter alone, no matter the brand of wine is the the joy. At this moment, I only to let his own face, digestion, experience, refined, I can do?
So I open the computer, sent him a letter:
Dear Charlie:
I am very sorry to hear you're feeling low. I hope you read my letter, feel better again. Life is full of excitement and depression. Some people spend in total in the doldrums, while others, only occasionally unhappy.
Anyway, I hope you feel has improved now.
here, I would like to share with you a classic songs, is Paul Simon and Art Garfunkel's masterpiece : eager to write the ultimate truth. I sent it to his son, expressing my love for all his sustenance. let him know that the world does not cross over the Cho-no (troubled water), the father life will always have unconditional love, support hh
When you're weary, feeling small,
When tears are in your eyes,
I will dry them all
I'm on your side (less omitted)
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than twenty-four hours, and my heart thinking about the child's mood, I once again call to his son. Xu Chao mood has returned to normal. said something so homely, he suddenly serious and said solemnly: ; Dad, I received your email and that song, thank you! I even saw a father and son share a masterpiece hh mm smug you can not help my children grow up in, although I have many children where I'm sorry, but this time, my performance good ah!
(Appendix:
Bridge Over Troubled Water lyrics)
When you're weary, feeling small,
When tears are in your eyes,
I will dry them all
I'm on your side.
When times get rough
And friends just can't be found
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down.
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down .
When you are down and out
When you're on the street,
When evening falls so hard
I will comfort you.
I take your part
When the darkness comes
And pain is all around.
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down.
Sail on silvergirl, Sail on by,
Your time has come to shine. < br> All your dreams are on their way
See how they shine.
If you need a friend.
I'm sailing right behind.
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down.
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down.
Yes I'll, yes I'll Lay me down.

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